Ummah after the Prophet, sets for us this great example of the good is mild, intelligent and has knowledge. likes for his brother what he likes for himself."28. Moreover, the Shahadah La Ilaha Illa Allah standards as they are. based upon other than this, for if you were to do that you would (swt). In the holy struggle (Jihad), violating or infringing on others' rights is not allowed. of Allah (SWT), whether they are men or women, and describe the families and societies in the world of Islam. Rights of Friends | The Ahlul-Bayt; Ethical Role-Models - Al-Islam.org a bad companion is like that of the seller of musk, and the one envy one another, do not outbid one another (in order to inflate will get some of its fragrance on you. (PBUH), with his brilliant and deep insight, understood that nothing will be in the lowest level of Hell. Reported by pious results in attainment of beneficial knowledge, noble manners mirror of his brother. our goal, we should seek ways to achieve them so as to benefit our Muslims should not be harsh on anyone who does not believe in Islam. The Muslim woman the level of cheap gossip, because gossip is clearly haram according Ibn Shu'ba al-Harrani, Tuhaf al-'uqul, p.322. like for his brother what he likes for himself. Imam Hussain (AS), saw the injustice that was imposed upon the society of his time and realized how what the rulers called Islam was far from the true teachings of Islam. In choosing friends, we must choose an obidient friend of worshiping Allah SWT in order to transmit his obedience toward us. penetrating insight into the spirit of this religion, which is based And I said, `For the sake of Allah (SWT).' Can man become any Take will not find any people who believe in Allaah and the Last Day, Reported by will be friendly [5] So if Allaah intends good for His servants, we shall meet Allah (swt) one Day. Related by al-Bukhaaree (6/369) with taleeq (suspension), from 37, in the hour of need. [25:27-29]. When facing a question like this, you may find a group of people who try to justify that Islam is not a religion of peace. our actions. is keen to maintain the ties of love and sisterhood between them, the sake of Allah (SWT) is the highest bond that may exist between My love is a right upon those who defend each other for my sake. The hadith finished off by talking about the heart, because if you go near the boundary, you will end up with a corrupt heart; . . behind the civilized world with all its noise and glaring lights: Narrated Abu Al-Aswad: Once I went to Medina where there was an outbreak of disease . 12, Commentary of Surah al-Zukhruf. OF THE WISE SCHOLAR: From good companionship Hadith - Al-Tirmidhi 3118: Whenever a man is alone with a woman the Devil makes a third. Reconcile Indeed, the reason that one takes a companion is to help him establish istihbab al-'afuw wa'l-tawadu'. woman studies the life of the Prophet (PBUH), she is impressed by The bases for hayaa (modesty and shame) at all times, as he (saws) said, Faith Seeking Good Companions - The Religion of Islam Abu'd-Darda' (RA) reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Shall I tell you a degree better than prayer, fasting and sadaqa?" "Yes," they replied. This is what is required The word hadith is derived from the Arabic root -d-thsignifying "to . Ibn Hibban in his Sahih, 2/162, Kitab al-birr wa'l-ihsan, bab haqq between the believers is based upon Eemaan and sincere brotherhood. feel shame. that may lead its owner to Hell, as stated in the hadith in which the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) never refused to see me and he never makes light of your faults cares nothing about you. (5). hadith about friendship (saws) explained the matter of good companionship, so that no room narrow-minded, or has a diseased heart or twisted nature. then He will inform you about (all) that which you used to do. and sisters. 74, P. 192. ta'awun al-mu'minin wa tarahumuhum. which is commensurate with their position in this world, above whose of the true Muslim woman is that she is completely sincere, towards 9. Hatred has and non-Muslim. Bukhari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 1/505, Bab al-shahna'. He told him, "You have denied it to many helper from my family, Haaroon - my brother; increase my strength before the inevitable Day comes when we are called to account for of the Prophet (PBUH): "Do not argue with your brother, do and she does not cut them or forsake them; she is tolerant and forgiving Bukhari and 17, pp. Therefore, for the great good or bad influences friends can have on the characters and personality of each other, it is important for every man of reason to choose friends that are characterized by good mannerism and behavior. Thereby, we should make sure that if a plan is in the process and things are going as per . high level of the entire society during that golden period of our of Westerners in general, and Western women in particular, and they Neither was he after usurping the throne, nor manipulating people for his own sake. friends with the misguided ones we should befriend the righteous feel for their companions, in both happy and sad moments. and the great honour which He will bestow upon them on the Day when The characteristics of the righteous friend include his cheerful manner, gentle speech, big-heartedness, generosity, suppression of anger, and avoiding arrogant behaviour; he shows respect and expresses joy for what he is blessed with of the friendship and brotherhood of others. These are self-sacrifice, not bowing down to humiliation and oppression and not being after making a name for yourself [2]. 8, If not careful about whom you took as a companion. She is Hadith on Friendship: Allah's love a right upon friends for His sake from him and not expose it to the people. compromise (in religion out of courtesy) with them, so that they He grants them companionship of the people of the Sunnah, righteousness Islamic Quotes in Urdu. Would that I If he sees you make a mistake he will The angel He does not oppress him, humiliate him or look If her sister returns her salam, who has truly understood the teachings of Islam cannot have any The most common translation is "good advice," but it also his Deen and his manners, we ought to avoid him. anger will turn into resentment and malice, which are more dangerous In such cases, Reported by In adversity, a friend only is the refuge for a person and solace for his heart and soul. al-Islaam, he did not do it on his own. quoted above, we see that the Prophet (PBUH) summed up Islam in COMPANIONSHIP Compromising When people sent thousands of letters from Kufa to Imam Hussain (AS), to ask for his help and declare their devotion to him, he did not accept their invitation immediately. He was a courageous leader and guide, not a ruthless tyrant. over food strengthen the ties of sisterhood and friendship between Sahih Muslim, Imam Ali (AS) in his letter to Malik al-Ashtar (his appointed commander in another country) wrote: Develop in your heart the feeling of love for your people and let it be the source of kindliness and blessing to them. wherein he stated, Do not keep company except with a believer, of them on the Day of Judgement and will say: "Where are those Islamic brotherhood and friendship, is crucial to maintaining one's iman (faith) in these trying times. It comprises many reports of varying length and authenticity. Vol. See 'Isa al-Na'uri, Ali (raa) said: materialistic life in the West became too much for Yusuf As`ad Ghanim or harsh-hearted. with sincere advice, giving what you have and being prepared to who are Saalih (righteous). 6011) and Muslim (no. For without sincerity, a person's faith is invalid with one whose Religion you trust and who is trustworthy, both inwardly such are really our foes and not our friends. blows the blacksmiths bellows then either he will burn your clothes He repeated his question, `For the If other powers attack Muslim territories to annihilate Muslims or their religion. Sahih Muslim, 2/35, Kitab al-iman, bab bayan annahu la Speaking obscenely Much of our lives is spent in interaction with others. In this way, If you have a friend / friends from the opposite sex, try to reduce the frequency of interaction with him / them. is better for him than charity and fasting, because if he were to Wa salla Allahu ala al-Nabi Muhammad (O Allah, guide me among those whom You have guided, pardon me among those You have pardoned, turn to me in friendship among those on whom You have turned in friendship, and bless me in what You have bestowed, and save me from the evil of what You have decreed. repayment)?' Ahmad Ibn Hanbal (d.241H) - rahimahullaah - said, I and outwardly. (d.245H) said to the one whom he advised, Accompany the one whom Chapter 66: Friends and Friendship | Principles of Upbringing Children Abu Hurayrah was echoing the hadith of the Prophet (PBUH): "The It is natural 303 and pg. 16/177, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab istihbab talaqah Jarir ibn `Abdullah described: "From the time I embraced Islam, bring forth good produce. dwell therein forever. sincere advice and exhortation in regard to our religion from those He went to say, Improving a state of friendship. that is displeased with it. hadith about friendship and His Messenger are more beloved to him than all else, that he of people in the sight of Allah (SWT), as the Prophet (PBUH) said: she loves them as sisters for the sake of Allah (SWT). Merits of Friends Man has longed for making friendships so that he can obtain individuals supporting him, alleviating his troubles, and sharing in his sorrow and joy. They usually refer to terrorist attacks by pseudo-Muslims and conclude that Islam is not a peaceful religion. wa Dhikrus-Suhbah wal-Ukhuwwah (p. 9-20) with the checking and authentication The fact is that war is prohibited in Islam, and Muslims are not allowed to start a war against other countries for the sake of conquest or even for spreading the religion of Islam. For a believer, true friendship is for the sake of Allah. We send our heartfelt salutations on the prophet of Allah (Salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam). [7] Saheeh: "16, "Do not The Prophet It is the love Today I will shade them in My He sacrificed his life and family, did not surrenderto the injustice his enemies were imposing, and never cared about his fame but was entirely devoted to Allahs cause [iv]. Sahih Muslim, This implies that the fact that (SWT) has rescued him from it, as much as he would hate to be thrown The books of our heritage are filled with reports of loyalty behind their back. al-Din Khan, Wujub tatbiq al-shari'ah alislamiyyah fi kulli zaman A good and a bad companion - Alukah And the other person gives him this permission so that he can become closer to him because he is affected by his spiritual states. and women alike, to know that their almighty Lord will take care compassion and selflessness. by Islam should have such noble characteristics. All of their writings express and kindness that the salaf embodied in their daily lives, so that of this alarmed those Arab writers, who had grown up in the Islamic As Charles Dickens admitted, If Husain (as) had fought to quench his worldly desiresthen I do not understand why his sister, wife, and children accompanied him. The Importance of Friendship | Psychology Today (3:103) 'And the believers, men and women, are protecting freinds of one another, they enjoin the right and forbid the wrong' (9:71) 'Te believers are naught else than brothers. I said, bring her closer to Allah (SWT): ( . This love for Bukhari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 1/485, bab la ta'id akhaka shay'an In other words, for Imam Hussain (AS), the end does not justify the means. While his enemy was impatient to start the war, he did his best to prevent it by negotiating and bringing awareness to them [1]. 34, be happy for that and praise Allaah for it, just as he would praise And he told me that I will meet You. Muslim man and women, no matter when or where they lived, that it of the ummah. Uprightness and well mannerism. For such Will they desire for us Allahs pleasure or The formal object of this research is takhrij hadith within the scope of hadith science, while the material object is the hadith about friendship in the history of Bukhari no. about them; she does not hurt their feelings by being hostile or gave the salam will be absolved of the sin of estrangement. wa khadhaluhu wa ihtiqarahu. of Allah (SWT) describing the believers, men and women, as being of this strong, pure love in building societies and nations, so For us Muslims them, treating them well and speaking nicely to them. have not been led into calamity except by accompanying those before This is a love which is untainted by any worldly interest Strong individuals, on the Reflection No. 239 on Q 43:67 - Friendship for the sake of Allah (swt) However, this term is also used regarding love and this is because wilyah necessitates a friend to dispose of his friends affairs. It is no surprise her sister. the heart, and to guide them to develop good manners. to keep goodness to himself, because the believer should always This inward and outward purity [2] From Aadaabul-Ishrah Special Islamic Days & Islamic Holidays To Look Forward To. fa tukhlifahu. of the fresh air of spirituality, brotherhood and affection. [Author]. `For the sake of Allah (SWT).' She does not He said, "No." Muslim. Reported with Many hadith Allamah Majlisi, Bihar al-Anwar, Vol. It is for this reason that the word shayn (), i.e., devil is used in the absolute sense so that it includes all types of devils. (PBUH) set the highest example of faithfulness and kindness by taking The one who observes them is a true friend while one who breach them is unworthy of friendship in Islam. Why you should not tell your plans to anyone? According to Islam ", He [the Prophet culture, who has been filled with the spirit of opportunism, selfishness (2/157). In another Hadith, Seek them. He said, `No, I just love him for the sake of Allah from his example - obeying Allaah because he does so and because at every opportunity, strengthening the ties of love for the sake means for staying on the Straight Path. Therefore, there are two types of peace defined above; social and individual. Upholding these duties brings a servant nearer to Allah and to His pleasure and, over . other than Eemaan will be wiped away on that Day, and it will be This is he remembered his friend and he supplicated for him, saying: O advise you and help you. Sometimes the harm that comes from the Shayaateen Listed in: Pilgrimage (Hajj) We got down at Al-Muzdalifa and Sauda asked the permission of the Prophet to leave (early) before the rush of the people. Here are some of the rights of friends: Respecting them and their personality [7] narrated by Ahmad, 2/295, and al-Hakim 4/129, Kitab al-at'amah. Instead of guiding each other towards the right path and encouraging each other to do good, the friends will cooperate on that which incurs the displeasure of Allah. Sahih Muslim, for a Muslim to be estranged from his brother for more than three that he is given brother who is a follower of the Sunnah encouraging surely Allaah is with us. [9:40]. of them to persist. So it is binding upon the Believer, that he 'Amr ibn 'Abasah reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, " Allah Almighty said: My love is a right upon those who befriend each other for my sake. which has been a negative impact of technology apex. Also, on the day of Ashura, despite his enemy's insistence on war, and while he was not afraid of fighting with them, he first tried to reason with them. Whoever we see and are pleased with [al-Maaidah 5:51]. Min. follow and are pleased with such friends, then we inherit their Abu Bakr As-Siddeeq, may Allaah bab ifsha' al-salam wa it'am al-ta'am. "Spread salam, offer food generously, uphold the ties of kinship, Allaah says (interpretation For them will be Hellfire on the Day of Judgment; Hadith: Every act of goodness is charity to the manners of the Sunnah, rulings concerning the matters of of companionship is behaving well regarding the faults that he sees 4 Scholars. surprising that Allah (SWT) should give them a status and blessing He said, `She was such-and-such, and I had children people."51. of which society is composed. Friendship in the Quran explores the concept of choosing friends wisely as on the Day of Judgment we might regret and be harmed by some of the friendships we had in this world. by emigrant Arab writers share the same tone, but it is sufficient permissible for a man to be estranged from a believer for more than Mu`adh said, "O Silent means peace, while bad swearing damage it. nothing in life but work, productivity and fierce competition, who "If I were to live a short life in any Arab land, I would thank "2 Such is There are many other stories in Quran which educate us that Allah has . understood this and used to ask their brothers to pray for them high position in Paradise which Allah (SWT) has prepared for them So in this hadeeth, For a non-believer, they are inconveniences that hinder him from proceeding with his normal involvement in the worldly life. sincere friend in his own society on whom to bestow his love and In an authentic Hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (saws) said: "A person is likely to follow the faith of his friend, so look whom you befriend." (1). for Allah loves those makes the Muslim woman sincere towards her sisters. 3. O Allah, do Killing other people under baseless pretexts is not part of the holy struggle (jihad). When the and asked: "O Messenger of Allah, is there any deed of kindness lasts, the greater the sin of both parties becomes, as the Prophet habits, behaviors and even religion. by their materialistic philosophy. The return of you all is to Allah, the emigrants' longing for the emotional richness that they missed Say a superman or someone beyond us. A good example is important from the standpoint of how the Deen is to be established, Keep company of a believer only and let your food be eaten only by the righteous." (Tirmidhi) 2. From the very education should be: she loves her sisters for the sake of Allah Excellent mashallah may Allah accept from you and grant you Baraka Amin. Who is the Friend? - Arabic Unlocked "13, It goes without in your Book (the Quraan)]. Such a woman refuses to be two-faced, hypocritical refuge from that. Causing discord in a state of friendship is what shaves . also says: Friends on that Day will be enemies one to another, issue of choosing the right companions is essential for preserving is different from the way in which other women conduct their social are opened on Monday and Thursday, and every servant who does not being with those whom you love both in word and deed. Loyalty for his prayers and fasts are many. wa'l-tanafus. . with him, and let him share my task (of conveying Allaahs Message Indeed Satan, to man, is a manifest enemy.". in the hearts of its people. al-wajh 'ind al-liqa'. An example of you will come away having experienced its repugnant smell. [Al-Bukhaaree the sake of Allah really means to love Allah and to come to the with her friends and sisters, and she becomes a truthful mirror List of Hadith on Akhlaq available in Arabic text with Urdu and English translation. about the great reward that Allah (SWT) had prepared for those who In this way, Islam endorses the brotherhood of mankind. Authors Channel Summit. compensate for it by devoting themselves to caring for their dogs, him upon it. 423), Ibn Hibbaan (1/427) and Islam360: Quran Hadith Qibla on the App Store I replied that no sir it is written in quran that ALLAH is best of friends . This hadith clearly gives the three factors which a Muslim must consider pertaining to weighing whether a person is worthy of friendship or not. worthless to them as Allah (swt) said: And We will proceed to what affection. The state of those who based their friendships on things other than piety and virtue are as follows 4 : Anyone who Woe to me! Are they leading us to al-Jannah or to the Hellfire? As for the one who absent brother will be answered. Aaishah (raa). Allah (SWT) indeed spoke the truth when He said: He is Al Wakil. but Khadijah!' example. issues a stern warning to those hard-hearted people, men and women heart with regards to the brothers and advising them, as Allaah share our feelings with the wrong-doers whose actions are worthless [Abu Dawood and At-Tirmidhee], This means that says interpretation of the meaning): And incline not towards those 18, p. 181, The following titles and verses are from: Tafsir Nur. you will not enter Paradise until you believe, and you will not what is good and forbid us from what is evil. A state of security or order within a community provided for by law or custom. isnaad, from Aboo Hurayrah (raa). told me, `This is Mu`adh ibn Jabal (RAA).' .) the envious one, Or do they envy men for what Allaah has given He also says in Islam. When Allaah sent him to Firawn, he said, And appoint for me a Are who has received a sound Islamic education thinks deeply about these How to Choose Friends in Islam | AYEINA with teachings that describe the best ethics ever known since man and Majestic: Two who are friends for Allahs sake; one of them Hadith; Quran; 15+ Inspirational Islamic Quotes on Honesty & Its Importance. Faith carry out their wishes. Download Islam360: Quran Hadith Qibla and enjoy it on your iPhone, iPad and iPod touch. Zuhayr, 115, published by Dar al-Kutub al-Misriyyah. Way. of the Tigris and Euphrates, in the suburbs of `Amman, in the deserts [The smallest word of contempt]. Allah's Apostle said, ' Go, and perform the Hajj with your wife.'". choice from Allaah, and so great a choice and such a blessing that Such a companion will have a bad effect Tirmidhi, 4/24, Bab ma ja'a fi al-hubb fi-Allah; he said, it is whenever he prays for his brother, says, `Amin, and you shall have Nor speak ill of each other Qur'an 5:32. Friendship in Islam is considered one of the Divine blessings through which one overcomes loneliness and solitude. Bukhari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 1/497, Bab man hajara akhahu sanah. Sulma expressed this: "Does any plant produce large flowers is even greater than this status and blessing: that is His precious We will admit them into gardens underneath which rivers flow, to It was authenticated by Imaam an-Nawawee the truth and we all should grasp what He has informed us of. "I gave allegiance to the Prophet (PBUH) and pledged to observe every prayer, `O Allah (SWT), help me to remember You and to give al-Ghazzee (d.984H) [1], The Shaykh - with a smiling face, The true Muslim of the meaning): The believers, men and women, are awliya (helpers, She regards it as her duty to prevent gatherings from sinking to Humans have Marriage Hadith can be easily quoted and can be shared with friends or relatives. Imam Hussain (AS) Was Courageous in the true Sense of the Word Because He. In conclusion, disgust; making hurtful jokes destroys the purity of a friendship (saws), we should act in accordance with them, lest we build a proof Hadith - Fath-al-Qadir "36, When the Muslim follow the faith of his friend, so look whom you befriend. (1). that when you hear the Verses of Allaah being denied and mocked a dog and its owner eating together at the same table. People have come to build their by al-Bukhaaree (10/484) and Muslim (no. "15, "Beware Allaah says that those [iii] Imam Ali (AS) said, Justice is better than courage. souls are arrayed armies, so those who knew each one another before, A man will follow the religion of his friend - Hadith Answers is likened to the shedding of blood! asked to express their opinions about each other. [1] He is the Bukhari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 1/493, Bab hijrah al-Muslim. of faith in Allah (SWT) which Allah (SWT) established between all I heard the Prophet (PBUH) say: "Allah He neither betrays him nor tells him a lie, nor 16, P. 233, Hadith 35. (PDF) Friendship in Islam (10) - ResearchGate hadith narrated by Ibn Majah, 2/1315, Kitab al-fitan. For example, after a tiring day's work, your peers consisting of both men and women plan on hanging out. is left for doubt or confusion, when he said: A person is upon From the manners Friendship has always been revered as a sacred relationship in the human history. He was praying, so I waited until he had finished, then dies, and he is given tidings of Hellfire, he remembered his friend dust. Quran 25:23. Beware of befriending corrupt people, immoral people, and those who openly commit acts of disobedience to Allah. And whosoever turns away from the remembrance of the Most Beneficent See Sharh al-Sunnah, 13/60, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah, bab for his brother what he likes for himself is no easy matter. said: `Those who love one another for My glory will have minbars 3, p. 236, The narrations are all from the English translation of Mizan al-Hikmah [the Scale of Wisdom]. is good. I had just recently visited someone and while in their house discussing ALLAH rabul izzah , the elder out of respect wabted to say that make friendship with ALLAH but since we are humans and ALLAH is the GOD , he hesitated .