We have no moon aspects will this help? His dejanira is in opposition to his vertex. Who is whom? Talk about deep dark sexual desiresTremendous sexual need to control. Required fields are marked *. They are deceiving themselves, would be a better way to say it. Karmic astrology synastry is suddenlyreally interesting when you want to look at your own relationship. orb). I would need to see more, Jenn! Keep in mind that conjunctions are the most important, but other aspects can occasionally speak to marriage. Maybe, maybe not. I came across your blog post and so went through my charts looking for couple friends and this one came up as having the conjunction. If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. Do we exile her from consciousness or build her a sanctuary for potent, creative expression? I wonder what do you think it would happen when nessus conjuncts nessus in synastry. At the end of the day, that is all this god and goddess really ask for.". , Not a sag actually, but a virgo with tons of leo in her chart, lol. Eros represents our passionate and erotic energy and how we use it. And his moon is in cancer so depending on what time hes born, there are 2 scenarios :1) my Saturn squares his moon but my sun and north node would conjunct it 2) my Pluto would square his moon but our moons would be in trine. His Nessus conjunct her midheaven. (both in Capricorn) Things were so passionate that we were bankrupting ourselves on planet tickets, so after a whirlwind 4 month courtship I quit my job and moved in with him- on the other side of the country. Is it relevant? I dont want to assume that having Nessus conj BML means Im going to be abusive in sexual relationships. I still talk to him to this day and I honestly will never forget how magnetic this relationship was. Well, we have a Sun (me) trine Pluto and a Pluto (me) conjunct his sun, Thank you so much for the reply and sorry for the late reply, Ive just seen it xx My moon is in Sagittarius and his in cancer, so that always worries me , He has pluto at 27 Virgo with my sun at 11 Virgo. Thank you for your reply. They may not be able to see what you are up to and you could use this for your gain. That is why it is so powerful. It is a true soul mate aspect, to me. It wasn't until he began to withhold sex from me that I finally crumbled. . You example above is only if a woman has Dejanira conjunct a mans ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. Any feedback on the roles being reversed? 4. Thank you Ivs. OkI really cant comment on the sign, per se. Your email address will not be published. They have a very imaginative sex life. For teaching purposes, one must break things down, so it may seem like it is contrary but it is really not, imo, Sandy. my sun in exact opposition to his pluto (I have this aspect in the natal chart) and my pluto in conjunction with his sun in an orb of 7 even far he can feel it? It is desire, it is passion and love. This is based on experience and charts, as are all my theories. Any other aspect will show a wound through marriage, but the marriage wasnt necessarily involving both parties together. What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. BUT my dejanira is conjunct with his sun by one degree and my dejanira is also in the same degree as my AC What does that mean? Aww Fluffy 9. I am prone to being attacked in this way. We have our arguments and I sometimes feel put down by him (and, to be fair, he feels the same way about me) and sometimes my self-esteem suffers. When she contacts Eros in another, the answer to that question is found in the heart of a powerfully erotic relationship. Yes, that is a good way to put it. Things dont come out until marriage, sometimes. When the son grows up, he will likely be the abuser,too. hmm well I dont really have his birth time lol so I just went by the general aspects, so I can see what he does to my moon and where his planets fall in my houses but not vice versa. lol. This transit is positive as well as painful, destructive and revelatory. I dont think you can draw the concrete conclusion you did from these aspects. Youll have to use your judgement here. I would have to see the rest of the chart to tell more though, my Friend. You truly made my day! His dejanira is conjunct with my sun. It is not as intense as the conjunction but very intense, nonetheless. Eros: Synastry Aspects . The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry. Venus mars aspects I was wondering how much weight can have the orbit in a synastry.. for example, I have with a guy a Venus trine Pluto, but 5.46 orbit.. does it counts? Which probably held it together for SO long. His touch is all at once sexual, creative and spiritual. I get into this discussion a lot with people. in case his vertex in my moon and ascendant *. I just found out my abusers Moon is 1 degree conjunct my Dejanira. As such, I would be careful and watchful. Sydney, you are amazing. Their capacity for intimacy and shared desire to melt into the fires of transformation is nothing short of total risk, which each are compelled to take- no questions asked. We are dealing with very primal emotions here and we all know what primal emotions and passions can do if a person is not careful. You find them sexually attractive. If it has not of yet, it may be a new relationship. In my opinion, it will play out. That mars/nessus of his is also square his moon/pluto. Oh dear, I am soooooo freaked out!!!!!!! woman s Dejanira and Juno, ( 445 and 432 Scorp ) both conjunct mans Eros and Chiron, (510 Scorp, 530 Scorp ) and both OPPOSITE mans Nessus (6 Taurus) Most important to me is that you find Jesus. I guess ill post mine and then our synastry chart. Yes very passionate.50shades of grey is just childplay. What significance would you place on someones Juno conjunct my vertex, south node as well as very-widely conjunct my sun (same sign). The fear can totally destroy someone over something that they read as if its fact. I have some extreme aspects and I shudder to think how they would be expressed had I not had saturn at the top of my chart who keeps things in check via a grand trine involving some big bad planets. When Eros touches the Sun, the energy of both the Sun and Eros awaken between . In some past life, at some point, weve been married to almost everyone weve dated or had some type of relationship with. Uranus is kink, so you do the math. Yes, their Moons are trine both in Earth signs. This is not dark sexual, per se. Thank you for your response, I appreciate it very much. It wasn't enough for me to have sex with him though. You are so welcome, Britt and thanks so much for telling me that you like it. These aspects or connections have a "mean't to be" feel to them, it's a potent place to look at in synastry. His abuse asteroid on her midheaven would be her reputation and career, right? The 12th house is all about past life astrology, so the planets can always be applied to past lives as well as the current life. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. YOU are the most important person to me. And what about Sun and Pluto contacts in synastry? (Conjunction, Opposition, Trine, Sextile, Square! Eros and Psyche were mythical lovers, and were brought together by fate. In mythology, Eros was the god of sexual love and desire. It brings you back to the time when you were a child and truly powerless. Well you may want to take advantage of their trust and innocence. Sometimes I nurture sometimes he does. His Amor is in trine and sextile to a few of her inner planets. Posts: 376From: Western Massachusetts, USRegistered: May 2009. When Lilith and Mars team up in synastry, there's nothing they can't do. Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. What about mars, Saturn and Jupiter in Virgo? You have such a sweet spirit. I'm really only just starting to get to know Eros well, and Lilith is still somewhat elusive. Do you see what I mean. Do you have their synastry you could post on my Forum? Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Also my true node is at 22 Cancer close to my nessus (conjunction?) Is this something that reliably and consistently is reflected in a variety of different charts? Not good, my Friend. "I want to welcome you to my website. I think there are very few people who actually manage to overcome childhood abuse, and not without a long painful journey and negative experiences. How does that play out? It is not pretty at all. Hey there! Even with a trine this 8th house effect enhances both the good and the bad ? As one of the four largest asteroids (along with Vesta, Pallas, and Juno), Ceres is usually analyzed in the birth chart. As far as the form of abuse, one must look at the sign and the quadriplicity( cardinal, fixed or mutable) One must look at the chart to see how the abuse will play out but I think that abuse will occur in your situation with Nessus conjunct Dejanira. Did you know I had one? I was wondering.. Are Sun/Mars (double whammy) and Venus/Mars (double whammy) dark aspects in synastry? I often am able to get away in time, and at other times I can get away only to a certain degree. 2021 - ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. And how did you arrive at the conclusion that Nessus and Dejanira are indicative of abuse? This will be HOT. Yes, I was thinking about this. They have transcended Nessus conj Dejanira, which is a new situation for me to see. Your passions are overwhelming, spontaneous, and you develop your attractions without even thinking about it. xx. You say that you want a nuclear passionate relationship. Fortuna Conjunct the Vertex. IF the chart does not seem right, then I think the time of birth is off. it would be such a fortunate relationship with his Jupiter conjunct my ASC in synastry, and Venus-Jupiter exact composite conjunction right on his natal Sun! This vertex conjunction shows up again like in my previous relationship. I always question the role of house overlays and given this topic the 8th house comes to mind. and DW : womans Nessus (13 Gemini) opposite mans Juno ( 12 Sag). What I've read about Lilith makes it seem to me that she's sort of like the Feminine's Pluto with lots of primal sexual urges thrown in, so I'm sure she rooted herself comfortably into your already heavily Plutonic relationships. My eros was conjunct someone's mars and I did feel like whenever he was sexual, it was very erotic. Double whammy of Mars-Uranus in our synastry chart. Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. I have looked at them unto themselves but everything matters so I will start to incorporate signs and houses. Lovely and very filled with passion! How will these aspects play out? in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. With any Chiron aspect to the other persons Juno, there was a wound created through marriage in a past life. It is a pleasure to be here. It would have ruined my relationship with my mother because I would have feared her even though she showed no signs of abuse. "In Greek art Eros was depicted as a winged youth, slight but beautiful, often with eyes covered to symbolize the blindness of love. My Pluto opposite his Moon. When these relationships end, it is not pretty. No worries. Lastly, with me having moon conjunct neptune in my natal and venus in my 12th house, does that make me similar to venus in pisces xxx I ask because I attract men with mars in pisces and men who have pisces as a descendant/7th house , Hi Ami, I have this aspect with someone Im seeing. She is deeply alluring and irresistible. 3. Before I leave this subject, I will add my theory. It is not good to have a base level view on what will happen with one isolated aspect. Lovely, Lo! We talk about it often (3rd house moon overlay) its just a bit overwhelming sometimes like a sweet dream one moment, then an absolute nightmare. Saturn conj Mars in Scorpio could produce a kinky kind of thing. Moon conjunct Pluto is the strongest of the Moon/Pluto aspects because the conjunction trumps any other aspect in strength. What conjuncts your Aura? Its not a square but there isnt much info out there on the conjunction. Lilith desires sacred sex above all things. Lilith Synastry Sun and Lilith conjunct in the synastry chart When Sun person's Sun and Lilith person's Lilith combine, each person awakens the deep desire for individuality and creativity in each other. Hi Ami, Ive been quietly enjoying your site for years now and am finally reaching out as Im intrigued by your work on nessus/deja and recently entered into a relationship with someone (not romantic) who I discovered has nessus and mars conj my nn exact. Great questions. as well as to the signs and houses. That is why I dont mince words. . Synastry When a person's natal moon forms a conjunction with someone's Eros, or vice versa, this can be a very sexualbut very intenserelationship. I do keep finding myself attracted to people who seem to have a strong primal power under the surface, and I dont really feel connected to Pluto myself (I dont know if thats on purpose or simply because its otherwise weakly aspected in my chart). Our mars are square (aquarius:leo) also. There is so few information on these aspects so I really appreciate reading more about it here and in the forum. Yet despite this fearsome reputation she was often dismissed as " a minor Babylonian wind deity " or similar. Thank you again. More about Synastry (relationship Astrology) Intermediate and advanced students of Astrology might enjoy our article, SoulMate . Moon oppose Pluto and Moon square Pluto could tend to be dark because they are powerful and not with a harmonious flow. The conjunction is, in my opinion, the only aspect that clearly dictates a marriage between these specific people. I hear your concern. Eros & Psyche in. Can you relate to it or are just worried in general lol. That is my commitment to my readers. under what theme of the forum? It may be off a few minutes and change things. I think you are insightful, do not get me wrong, but being fatalistic is not the truth, and me saying that being fatalistic is wrong to do and is detrimental to people that dont know how complex astrology is, does not mean that I am not accepting the truth. These are too many questions for text. The year started with powerful and forward thinking energy that will assist in elevating us both spiritually and subconsciously. The chart never lies, my Friend. xxx, This may make Nessus and what it means i.e abuse, something that is a deep subject with you and on one which you contemplate. That`s very interesting information. Eros/Pluto/Lilith together makes for one powerful combination. Our composite moon is at 26 Virgo and pluto at 0 libra. Would an eighth house overlay make these destructive or strengthen ? No point living in fear for aspects that may not play out. Eros represents what turns us on. Once awakened, no matter how untamed the experience becomes, we are given a rare opportunity to integrate, redeem and restore Eros and Lilith to a place of honor through shared, transcendental sexual activity. Why dont you put up your chart in my Forum and ask your question again. The planets, asteroids, and stars do not cause only one particular outcome. Currently you have JavaScript disabled. Am I right? My mother has her Nessus conjunct my sun and she has it conjunct her own north node, and my Dejanira is conjunct her moon, and there has NEVER been any type of abuse. Eros isnt making any connections to either Dejanira or Nessus though. It can be done but it is rare that someone reaches that level of spiritual mastery. I am worried about being the abuser here. If that does not float your boat, feel free not to read. Amazing emotional+sexual chemistry though there was some bumps in the way. If you have a dominant Dejanira, you will be a victim. The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry There is attraction based on dark forces like rage, pain and abuse. I always seem to have the opinion that these people are somewhat evil yet gullible and innocent and therefore they deserve to be abused.
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